Life is short, and nobody will disagree with that. As an interesting point, no-one can be certain that the sun will even come up tomorrow, so what’s the point of living a life sheltered from diverse experiences while we all know that they can bring us pleasure without the pain, yes I’m talking about gay sex chat. There are plenty of things that everybody anonymously feels like trying but most will back off for one reason or another. One of such things is gay webcam sex. When I made a decision to become a webcam model, I learned so many things on my adventure which I think might be used as guidelines for those that are going through with it for the 1st time.
Whether you looking to sex chat for fun or professionally on websites like JIzzroulette or Gayfreefun, these few steps will help you get on your way in no time at all.
STEP 1 – BUY A WEBCAM
A good one, of course in HD if you can afford it (they are not that expensive). You can find a vast selection in any electronic store near you. They always have a very good choice of webcams. You can also buy one off the internet (Amazon, EBay etc.) and get it directly shipped to your house. I would suggest you check out webcam reviews before making a choice. Some have face recognition, some have auto zoom and some have sound and lighting adjustments and so on. Just figure out your webcam needs and make an enlightened choice by reading about and choosing which one is suitable for you!
STEP 2 – INSTALL THE RIGHT SOFTWARE
Now that you have found the webcam that is right for you, either it came with the right driver or you will have to download it from the internet. Some are simply plug and play so that would be the first thing to try. If nothing appears when you plug in the webcam then you might have to search for your software. You can find it on your webcams website. It always comes with an installation guide so follow that and a few minutes later you will be home free. If you experience any difficulties while installing your webcam you can refer to this document which is sure to resolve most of your problems.
STEP 3 – FIND THE RIGHT PLACE TO WEBCAM
Not an easy task but you need to find somewhere safe to do it. By safe I mean you need to find a nice warm (because you will get naked) place, away from distraction and possible sightseers. Somewhere where you can concentrate on the computer but most of all where you will be comfortable.
STEP 4 – SET UP A DÉCOR
Me being the cutie pie I am, Love to set up a mood. Good lighting is a factor but I don’t want it to look too cold. A few candles, a clean room, a nice and cosy bed spread and a cute throw for the sofa, if I’m in the sofa mood it will do the job perfectly. Don’t forget, have a table or shelf or night stand nearby with water, snacks and of course your Ipod (iphone), so you don’t have to leave the room every time you need something. Have your vibrators, oils and whatever else you like to use on hand for a fast response if needed no wasting time when it comes to sex.
STEP 5 – PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT
Like they say, practice makes perfect. You don’t want to look like an idiot the first time you open up your webcam to the world. You want to Practice a little before revealing your sexy body to a gorgeous stranger. Open up your webcam and check the lighting. Make sure your room is well lit. You will look younger, cuter and your skin and face will look perfect. May I suggest a few simple lighting tips to get you on your way? I personally bought 3 neon racks (about 70$ for everything at the local hardware store) with fluorescent lighting that imitates the light of day. Once the right lighting is achieved it’s time to work your moves. With your new webcam, record yourself dancing and swaying and moving to the music. Check out your faces and your body. Be sexy, be sensual and most importantly be yourself.
STEP 6 – FIND THE RIGHT WEBSITE
It’s time to find which website is right for you. I personally use this website but it is more hetero oriented. You might want to try something like this gay webcam chat site for your first time online. I have been on it a few times (reviewing it for friends) and I must say I have not been disappointed in the cute guy department. Unfortunately all these hunks aren’t into me. There into other guys just like you. If Jizzroulette just doesn’t do it for you then there are tons of other websites who specialize in gay webcam chats.
STEP 7 – HOW TO TALK
Most important thing I can tell you is, be yourself. Don’t pretend that you’re someone else to please. There are so many choices of partners; you can actually take the time to find someone who is more than suitable for you, your personality and your personal tastes. If you stay yourself, conversation will flow and sex will be all that much better. Always make sure you are courteous, unless you’re both into the trash talk, then go ahead and have some nasty fun. Before every webcam session, make sure you clean up. Looking good is important you don’t want to look like a dirt bag. You want people to talk to you not close you off. Final little preparation tip, and this might sound weird, but wash your feet. Nothing turns off libido as much as a cute smart guy with dirty feet. You might be asked to show them, so you want them nice and clean. Good hygiene is important even if there is no real physical touching involved.
STEP 8- DO NOT BE FEARFUL OF BEING NEW
The first time you invite real people into your home, (via webcam) into your intimacy, it might be a little awkward, unnerving and super scary. I remember my first time, I didn’t know what the hell I was doing and thought people would think I was a webcam loser. I was scared no one would talk to me or they would just shut me off. That did not happen, the first time, I actually had so much fun and I stayed on till the wee hours of the morning. There’s always a certain film of uncertainty when trying something new and more often than another we are surprised with the results. So open up that webcam, get naked and let yourself go to the ultimate pleasure webcam sex has to offer.
STEP 9 – DON’T FALL IN LOVE
There are tons of pretty and fun people online to have webcam sex with. Always remember, it is what it is…Webcam sex. Don’t expect more. Maybe it can happen for you just don’t get your hopes up. Plus, long distance relationships almost always end in disaster why take the risk when you can have pure adulterous fun for free and best of all, no strings attached.
STEP 10 – HAVE FUN
Now that you are webcam ready and are prepared to flaunt your ass to the world, I just have one little bit of advice before you get on your way. You must realize that showing your goods on internet can have its consequences. Just make sure you are aware of that some people chat with bad intentions. Determine if you are ready and willing to have someone expose your intimates, because unfortunately it does happen. If this scares you and you still want to try the experience without turning on your cam, you can scoot over to Jizzroulette and or Gayfreefun where hot gorgeous guys are just waiting for chat partners and you don’t have to turn on your webcam if you do not want to. Now that you are totally prepared, sit back, relax, and enjoy the gay webcam sex ride!
